Wife Neglects Her Daughter Once a Week to Secretly Meets With her Lover

ANSWERS” is a somewhat unusual love counseling center that specializes in sending accurate advice on infidelity, plundering love, reconciliation, and other relationships that are difficult to confide in family and friends.

Its counselor, Shoko Mizusawa, receives consultations on adultery and looting love on a daily basis.

This time, we will introduce a consultation from a “sareh-husband,” which refers to a husband who is having an affair with his wife. I will introduce the common points of “sareh-husbands” who are victims of adultery and the advice I actually sent to them.

This case is a consultation from Mr. Yoshiharu Takahashi (pseudonym: 42 years old). Mr. Takahashi married Junatsu, who is 2 years younger than him, 10 years ago. They had a child soon after their marriage and have a 9-year-old daughter.

At first glance, this family seems peaceful. Yoshiharu, who works overtime and comes home late every day, was unaware of this, but to his surprise, he discovered that about two months ago, he left his daughter at his parents’ house for two to three hours once a week, during which time his wife was out of town.

When we questioned her as to why she went out without saying anything, she replied, “I don’t mind having a break from time to time with my friends, too, don’t you? 　She replied with a cool face, “My mother would be happy to see her grandchildren, too.

When Yoshiharu sneaked a peek at her cell phone, he found no suspicious communication, and he assumed that everything would be fine. However, when he revealed this story at a drinking party, a colleague said to him, “Maybe your wife is having an affair. (lol), he suddenly became concerned and came to us for advice.

Normally, he would have called a detective agency. However, Ms. Takahashi wanted to reassure us by saying, “It’s just your imagination.　He wanted to be reassured by being told, ‘Don’t worry, you’ll be fine. As soon as the phone consultation began, he asked, ‘Are you having an affair?’ What do you think? What do you think?

After hearing about the current situation to some extent, I asked, ‘If he is cheating on you, do you have any idea of the cause or the stress and frustration of your wife?’ The answer was, “Nothing in particular. If it were a normal consultation, I would have said, “Then it’s all right,” and hung up the phone. However, this was not the case with the cheating decision.