A “shita wife” who received advice from an adultery run-in counselor… and then showed an unexpected appearance.
＜Among them, there has been a sharp increase in the number of consultations from married women who are having a double affair (sita-wife). In the first part of this report, we introduced a consultation from Yuka Ito (pseudonym: 38 years old), married for 13 years, who is having a W-marriage affair, and her advice on how to handle the situation.
She is in love with a married man (31 years old) who is a coach for her child’s lessons and says, “I want to know how to make him more captivating and techniques to get him hooked! It’s been so long since I’ve been in love. I’ve already forgotten about it! Ms. Ito was in such a state that she could not stop asking questions.
Here is the advice that Ms. Mizusawa, a very popular ANSWERS consultant, gave to Ms. Ito. <Answers
The person on the other end of the phone is “not a mother of one, but a girl in love.
The cause of my feeling that this romance was dangerous was the balance of Mr. Ito’s comments. Most of the questions were all about “Mr. Ito and him. Barely, at the very end, she asked, “My husband hasn’t found out anything at this point, but is there anything I should be careful about?” I was even asked to confirm that he was in love with her.
I sensed a great danger in that Ms. Ito’s love life with him and her real life have become quite intermingled in her mind.
Especially for women, when they fall into the love brain, where all they can think about is love, everything in their lives is controlled by that mind. She was in such a state too.
Thinking about the person you love, you can’t get through dinner, you can’t get through work, you can get over today’s pain because you have a date tomorrow…etc. These may be cheerful situations in a normal relationship, but when it comes to infidelity, the story is different.
At ANSWERS, we don’t talk about infidelity as if it is a bad thing. If you want to make love more affectionately, we will give you advice on how to behave in a way that will please him.
However, if there was a risk that the relationship would end up in a way that Ms. Ito did not want, I needed to tell her as soon as possible.
