Tadashi Asano’s self-introduction on the Bunkyo University website. He had extensive experience working in classification homes and prisons.
In 2015, Tadashi was promoted to associate professor. He says, “The most important thing when dealing with students is to listen carefully and understand what they are thinking. As long as you pay attention to that, there will be no problems,” was his theory. Every morning Tadashi was in charge of taking the three girls to daycare in Komae. His wife would leave the house five minutes after waking up to go to work. She often returned home after 10:00 p.m., so she was always busy with her work. In addition, she had to be on duty twice a week, which meant that she had no time to take the children out to play. Tadashi thought about buying an apartment in Koshigaya, but his wife insisted on a single-family house, and they ended up staying in the government housing.
A “Criminology Professional” Falls Down
In April 2019, Houyo was transferred to Saitama Juvenile Discrimination Center and moved into a three-bedroom government housing in Urawa. At that time, Tadashi complained to his wife that her father’s luggage was too much, and they argued. Tadashi says, “After that, my wife stopped talking to me at all, and when I asked her for help, she would only say ‘yes’ or ‘no.’ The following month, I wrote her a letter of apology, but she didn’t respond at all, and I didn’t know why she was angry.”
Tadashi wrote several more letters of apology to his wife. However, she still did not speak to him, and in August of the same year, he began to think about divorce. He also consulted a lawyer. Tadashi told the court, “I have sent out all the letters apologizing.”
The next daughter, who became a high school student in the same year, went to a school about 80 minutes away by train. Tadashi and his second daughter moved to an apartment near Noborito Station in Tama-ku, Kawasaki City, Kanagawa Prefecture, which is convenient for commuting to school, and started a new life in September. Tadashi leaves home before his daughter’s school hours to go to Bunkyo University. His second daughter focuses on her part-time job, coming home late and hardly speaking to him. Tadashi recalls his life in Noborito, “I was disappointed that my second daughter did not seem to be thinking about her future.”
Tadashi is tired of the 90-minute commute to Koshigaya, and he fears that he will not be able to get along with his second daughter, and that his wife will take some kind of action against him. In October, he began visiting the Jikei Hospital No. 3 and began to contemplate suicide.
He began to contemplate suicide.
At the same time, Tadashi began to feel that his wife was trying to make his relationship with his second daughter worse by having her work part-time, and that she was trying to put him in a difficult situation. One day, Tadashi finds a grain of medicine prescribed at the Jikei No. 3 Hospital on the carpet at home. He says, “My second daughter is trying to drive me to suicide. It’s my wife’s idea” and “We know you are depressed and this is an act of flaunting it.”. He also forgot his smartphone, went to college, and found it on his own desk when he returned home. Tadashi, who had been searching the Internet for the keyword “suicide,” felt eerie, wondering if his thoughts were known.
In November, Tadashi was diagnosed at the Jikei No. 3 Hospital, where he told them that he was feeling a strong desire to die and attempted to hang himself by hooking towels and belts to a hanger pole in the closet. Around this time, he notices that his second daughter is leaving all the doors open in the house, and his wife would say, “You are trying to kill yourself, aren’t you? I know. Then go on, die.” He felt fear and anger toward his wife and second daughter, who wanted him dead.
When asked in court about her father’s condition in Noborito, the second daughter often replied, “I was so busy with my own affairs that I don’t remember.” However, she did remember a conversation on February 11, 2020, the day she and her father left their apartment in Noborito and moved to Koshigaya. “As soon as we arrived at our new apartment, “When are you leaving?” Tadashi asked. I said, “‘It’s not very nice to talk like that! Don’t you want me here?” I was so sad that I ran out of the apartment and went to Urawa,” she testified.
On March 4, Tadashi found in the mailbox of Noborito’s apartment a duplicate key that his second daughter had made without telling him. Tadashi explained his feelings at the time as follows.
“She did it without my permission. I felt angry that she lied to me. I felt as if my second daughter was making fun of me and taking pride in her victory. I thought about stabbing them all at once, my wife and my second daughter together. I have to decide whether to kill, or to be killed.”
When asked by the prosecutor about her mother’s character, the second daughter replied, “She is a serious person with a strong work ethic. I couldn’t have any filial piety,” she responded. “I am too afraid to say anything about his punishment.” (Honorifics omitted. To be continued.)