BTS Jong-Guk’s home invasion, obscene DMs to Japan’s national soccer team… Why women “turn into stalkers”?

He rushed to France and suddenly hugged ……

A Japanese woman in her 50s attempted to break into the home of Jong-Guk (28), a member of the popular Korean group “BTS,” and a police action was filed, according to local reports.

The woman is suspected of repeatedly pressing the code to Jong-Guk’s door between November 12 and 14.

Speaking of BTS and Japanese women, last June, member JIN (32) was forcibly kissed on the cheek by a woman in her 50s at an event to interact with fans. On November 17 of this year, the Eastern Seoul District Public Prosecutors Office had just announced that the Japanese woman had been indicted at home for indecent assault.”

It was a woman in her 50s who caused both the stalking of Jong-Guk and the indecent assault on JIN.

Such outbursts by elderly women are not limited to the entertainment world.

On November 14, the Abiko Police Station of the Chiba Prefectural Police arrested a 65-year-old woman, who calls herself a freelance journalist, on suspicion of violating the Stalking Control Law for stalking Takato Nakamura (25), a member of the Japanese national soccer team and the French “Stade de Lance.

The woman was arrested for stalking Nakamura by sending him several DMs demanding sexual relations between November 9 and 10.

According to reports in sports newspapers and other media, the woman not only sent obscene DMs, which is the arrest charge, but also rushed to France in September of this year, invaded the grounds of her team without permission, and suddenly hugged Nakamura. The woman was reportedly arrested by the local French police.

Both BTS and Nakamura must have been so “in love” with the women that they were unable to stop themselves.

Good intentions of “wanting to help” and “wanting to protect

We interviewed Hiromi Ikeuchi, a critic of marital and family problems who has consulted on more than 38,000 cases of man-woman problems,

Male stalkers are motivated by a desire for control,” she said. So, when they are rejected, they move to attack. Women, on the other hand, are stalkers who “assume roles. It’s called parasocial stalking, and in a pseudo-interpersonal relationship, the stalker one-sidedly assumes, ‘He’s a star, but he’s really lonely, and I’m the only one who can understand that.

Nakamura’s stalker is a woman who is on his social networking service (SNS). Nakamura’s stalker unilaterally identifies herself as his wife on her social networking site. She may have thought that this was her “role” in the relationship.

She may have thought that this was her “role,” so she is stalking them out of a desire to “help” and “protect. That is why they are even worse. This is one of the reasons why women tend to be older than men.

The first step in dealing with “star stalkers” who target celebrities or famous people is to avoid dealing with them directly. The victim should let the manager or the police handle the situation. Also, it is most important that the family, friends, and others around the stalker warn the stalker that he or she is acting strangely,” says Ikeuchi.

It is true that entertainment and sports are all about the fans, and there is little that can be done to prevent it. A person involved in the entertainment industry told us, “We can’t sell CDs like we did in the Heisei era,

However, nowadays, the method has shifted to a one that depends on how much money the core fans are willing to pay for tickets, goods, handshakes, and photo booths, etc., through fan clubs, goods, tickets, handshakes, and photo booths. This is why the distance between the talent and the fans is increasing. This has undoubtedly brought the talent and fans closer together. The line between “devoted fans” and “stalkers,” which we consider to be our best customers, is honestly quite difficult to draw, and there are social networking measures and other factors to consider when it comes to protecting talent, I think we are entering an era in which the ability of production companies to protect talent is being questioned more and more,” he says.

He also said, “I think we are in an era in which the ability of production companies to protect talent is increasingly being tested.

The entertainment industry in Reiwa is becoming more and more closely connected to celebrities and their fans. Therefore, it may be important for each and every fan to be aware of the “distance” between the stars and the fans.