I’ll show you how to cheat your uncle” – What is the “shocking information” shared in the community of “Wasurenai joshi”?

Please tell me which mental health clinic in Shinjuku can give me medicine on my first visit.

“If you had a positive PCR test result today, could you please provide us with a photo with the date?

The most important thing to remember is that you should not be afraid to ask for help from a friend or family member who has a similar problem.

This was part of a conversation that took place in a community of “needy girls. The conversation centered around topics such as drugs, debt, and how to lie to their male target, Jiba. The second conversation, about the PCR test, was supposedly intended to cancel the appointment with “Jijin” with the excuse, “I wanted to see you today, but I can’t because I tested positive for corona.

The “Okuri-Girls” became famous in 2009 when a YouTube video of an interview with one of the “Okuri-Girls” was made public by an exposé-type YouTube star. The term “ojis” is a generic term for men, and does not necessarily refer to uncles. Their modus operandi is to make unfriendly men fall madly in love with them and “get” money from them under various pretexts. They make Jijo think that they have a special relationship with him and offer him money. This is not unlike the papa katsu, where money is earned through meals and adult relationships.

In other words, the “Ojis” who have met at dating sites or sex stores frequently communicate with the “Jis” and use suggestive words such as “I want to be with XX-san more…” to make them feel as if they are in a special relationship with the “Ojis,” and then they ask for money from them. The following is an example of a “I’d like to spend more time with Ms. XXX…. Here are some of the tips that are referred to in the community.

The woman says, “Well, I’m going to go to ……. What should I do?

Man: “What’s wrong?”

Woman “I’m actually in need of money…(episode)”

Man “……”

Woman “I’m so stupid…do you hate me? But I’ll try my best to find somewhere that will lend me the money myself.”

When she invites the man’s sympathy with this kind of conversation, he is willing to pay for it himself. The key is to make the man think, “I want to help this girl. Some girls have made tens of millions of yen by selling information products with the above know-how in their communities. Here is a conversation among the girls in one of the communities.

Girl A: “What is the best way to reply to Jiba who says, ‘If you can’t repay your debt, let’s consult a lawyer’? I’ve already received this several times, so I think we have a relationship of trust…” (Original text in Japanese)

Girl B: “I’m sorry to tell you this, but I have a sister or a pet or something that I have to protect, and I don’t want to bother my sister. She also said that she couldn’t talk to anyone about this kind of thing (depending on the setting, she didn’t want her parents or workmates to find out about it, and was embarrassed that others, even lawyers, would find out about such things) and that she could talk to you because you were the only person she trusted.

Girl C: “I consulted with Houterasu (a quasi-independent administrative corporation known as the Japan Legal Support Center), but I was referred to them and was only allowed to consult with them up to three times, and the number of hours was limited, so I couldn’t find anyone who was kind to me. I’ve used a few times! ↑up is true because I have used Houterasu for a stalker case.

Although it is not clear whether what he is saying is true or not, it is an answer that “Ojiba” seems to be unintentionally agreeing with. In addition, “Oji” also answered, “I have a cell phone bill for January.

“Do you have a statement of your cell phone bill for January?

Or….

“Does anyone have a recent diagnosis of depression or stress symptoms?

If a girl who wants “proof” to make her lie true requests it, someone will upload it right away. Such a brilliant cooperative play can often be seen. Medical certificates, prescriptions for medicines, piles of empty pill sheets, x-rays, thermometer images showing fever, and all sorts of other things were uploaded.

How many of these images were used by the girls and how many “ojis” were deceived? Even ordinary girls who are not good at lying may be transformed into full-fledged “Okuryu-girls” through the help and wisdom of such a community.