She started going to &#8220;women&#8217;s sex clubs&#8221; in search of healing, but found herself in a &#8220;swamp&#8221; of pain. Following the first part of this report, &#8220;The End of a Single Mother in Her Thirties Who Got Swamped in a &#8220;Women-Only Sex Industry&#8221;,&#8221; we present an interview with Asuka, who became addicted to &#8220;Gachi-Koi&#8221; and spent 6 million yen on it.
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<h3> Seeing a therapist is the only thing that makes my life worth living.</h3>
 It was a euphoria I had never experienced in my life. I think people who get addicted to drugs want to feel this way so badly that they can&#8217;t stop. That&#8217;s why they continue to have a relationship with him.
 Asuka recalls how she was &#8220;in love&#8221; with J-kun, a female wind therapist, at the time. However, at the time of the first encounter, she was still willing to accept the fact that he was a female therapist. However, as they exchanged e-mails and made repeated appointments, Asuka became more and more infatuated with J-kun.
 She said things like, &#8216;We are in love with each other,&#8217; &#8216;I think about Aska every day,&#8217; and &#8216;I trust her the most. I had never used such a service before, so I didn&#8217;t think that these kinds of words were sales lies. I was in a state of &#8220;flower garden in my brain. The final straw was when he told me, &#8220;I would never lie to Aska. When he says that, I usually believe him. All I could think about was him.
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 But that was also the beginning of a difficult period of my life. I could not see him for months at a time because of his schedule.
 If we only saw each other for 15 hours a month, the other 29 days and 9 hours were much harder. So every day during that time, J-kun, whom I love, is at work, meeting other women. So my heart is always in shambles. But that is my normal state, so when I get a line or a phone call once in a while, my joy is not half as great as it should be. I am as happy as if I had won 10 billion yen in the lottery. I can&#8217;t forget this euphoric feeling, and I can&#8217;t stop seeing him.
 One meeting with J-kun costs around 150,000 yen, including fees and hotel charges. That&#8217;s a lot of money for Asuka, who has a day job.
 At first I thought it was expensive, but as I was paying it to meet J-kun, I became numb to it and felt like I was buying something a little more expensive at a convenience store. In order to become a woman worthy of him, I spent money on brand-name goods and self-polishing, which I had never bought before.
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 However, no matter how much Asuka loved J-kun, he turned out to be nothing more than a customer, and Asuka&#8217;s twisted days of happiness came to an end.
 He confessed to me at the very end that he had never felt romantic feelings for Aska at all. Then I found out that his previous words were a lie. What was even more shocking was that when I accused him of lying, he said, &#8216;These are things that sex industry users should know. I don&#8217;t know if the rules he said about sex services are correct or not. But I felt so disappointed to think that I had sacrificed a huge amount of time, 6 million yen of money, and energy just because I did not know about them. So I decided that I had to tell people who didn&#8217;t know about the rules, and I started my blog.
 Asuka&#8217;s blog, &#8220;The Dangerous &#8216;Sex Industry for Women'&#8221; (Ameba Blog), in which she describes her own experiences, has been a hit with women&#8217;s sex industry users, and has even been made into a comic book titled &#8220;I&#8217;m a simple office worker, but I fell in love with a top-notch therapist &#8211; 150,000 yen a night. Asuka&#8217;s blog received comments from many users who are addicted to and troubled by the female sex industry.
 She said, &#8220;&#8216;Isn&#8217;t this a common story in the male sex industry?&#8217; But it is obvious that women&#8217;s sex is more addictive. However, I feel that there are more cases of addiction to women&#8217;s sex than men&#8217;s sex. This may have something to do with the difference in the instinctive mental behavior of men and women.
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<h3>Megumi was almost addicted to the &#8220;motherly instincts&#8221; when she was tickled by them</h3>
 Megumi is a teacher in her 40s who lives in Tokyo. She has set a strict rule for her style of using Jogafu. She says that she uses Onnaikaze &#8220;so that I don&#8217;t wither as a woman until I have a boyfriend.
 I only go when the therapist&#8217;s newcomer discount or limited-time offer is 10,000 yen for two hours. Even 10,000 yen is expensive, but a regular oil massage or lymphatic drainage costs about 10,000 yen, so if it&#8217;s 10,000 yen, I&#8217;ll go for the women&#8217;s style. I never appoint the same therapist more than twice because if I repeat, I have to pay the regular fee. Actually, the sex and the sex act were not so good. To be honest, the sex I have had with my boyfriend was definitely better. Every time I go to a women&#8217;s club, I reconfirm that I was loved by all the men I have been with (laughs).
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 Even Megumi once wondered whether she should repeat the experience.
 If a therapist is someone I like and I think &#8216;I like&#8217; him or her, I can&#8217;t forget about him or her. I thought about repeating that therapy, and I almost got a little swamped, chiming in and sending messages and checking Twitter to stay connected as much as possible.&#8221;
 Even Megumi, who says that following her own rules raises her self-esteem, almost broke her own rules. As to the reason for this, she said.
 I have a child, but I think I have feelings similar to maternal instincts. I have a child, and the moment I held her in my arms for the first time in her life, I felt a burst of emotion. It&#8217;s a little bit similar to that. It&#8217;s a little different from falling in love. I think it&#8217;s easy to be pulled in because of that kind of female-specific emotion. Perhaps it&#8217;s a different feeling than men going into the sex industry.&#8221;
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<h3> Thanks to Nyofu, Lier was able to recover the &#8220;woman&#8221; that she had almost forgotten.</h3>
 It seems that there is something about Onnafu that is not found in the male sex industry. Aska calls it a &#8220;brain bug.
 She says, &#8220;I often get advice from prostitutes and people who are in the water business that they are troubled. Even those people who understand in their heads that male-female relationships are a business can become addicted to it. No matter how much they understand it in their heads, when they make out, their bodies think, &#8216;I love this person. For women who live by their hearts, jo-kaze is an addictive service,&#8221; says Aska.
 That is not to say that jogafu is dangerous. There are many women who feel that their lives have been enriched by attending Jogaze.
 Rie (pseudonym), a customer service worker in her 50s, still sees the therapist she first used about once every two months.
 I&#8217;m in my 50s, I&#8217;m not popular anymore, and I&#8217;ve almost forgotten what it&#8217;s like to be a woman. But I still don&#8217;t want to wither away. I am most afraid of withering away like this. So, I gathered up my courage and went to the women&#8217;s style. What impressed me the most was that they did what I wanted them to do without me having to tell them. For the first time at Nyofu, I was escorted like a foreigner, and when I asked her to &#8216;just sleep with me,&#8217; she silently slept with me and patted my head. I learned at Nyofu that really masculine people are kind. I learned at Nyofu that really masculine people are very kind, and it made me think that I should try my best in my daily life to be feminine so that I can shine in order to go to Nyofu. I am truly grateful.
 Jogaze can enrich women&#8217;s hearts and minds. However, once hooked, it is not easy to get out.

 I started going to "women's sex clubs" in search of healing, but found myself in a swamp of pain. Following the first part, "The end of a single mother in her thirties who fell into the swamp of "women-only sex industry"," we will continue with the story of a single mother who fell in love and spent 6 million yen on a "hard love".

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