The Surprising Reason Why Married Women Are Falling for “Women-Only Sex Services” One after Another
She started going to “women’s sex clubs” in search of healing, but found herself in a “swamp” of pain. Following the first part of this report, “The End of a Single Mother in Her Thirties Who Got Swamped in a “Women-Only Sex Industry”,” we present an interview with Asuka, who became addicted to “Gachi-Koi” and spent 6 million yen on it.

Seeing a therapist is the only thing that makes my life worth living.
It was a euphoria I had never experienced in my life. I think people who get addicted to drugs want to feel this way so badly that they can’t stop. That’s why they continue to have a relationship with him.
Asuka recalls how she was “in love” with J-kun, a female wind therapist, at the time. However, at the time of the first encounter, she was still willing to accept the fact that he was a female therapist. However, as they exchanged e-mails and made repeated appointments, Asuka became more and more infatuated with J-kun.
She said things like, ‘We are in love with each other,’ ‘I think about Aska every day,’ and ‘I trust her the most. I had never used such a service before, so I didn’t think that these kinds of words were sales lies. I was in a state of “flower garden in my brain. The final straw was when he told me, “I would never lie to Aska. When he says that, I usually believe him. All I could think about was him.
But that was also the beginning of a difficult period of my life. I could not see him for months at a time because of his schedule.
If we only saw each other for 15 hours a month, the other 29 days and 9 hours were much harder. So every day during that time, J-kun, whom I love, is at work, meeting other women. So my heart is always in shambles. But that is my normal state, so when I get a line or a phone call once in a while, my joy is not half as great as it should be. I am as happy as if I had won 10 billion yen in the lottery. I can’t forget this euphoric feeling, and I can’t stop seeing him.
One meeting with J-kun costs around 150,000 yen, including fees and hotel charges. That’s a lot of money for Asuka, who has a day job.
At first I thought it was expensive, but as I was paying it to meet J-kun, I became numb to it and felt like I was buying something a little more expensive at a convenience store. In order to become a woman worthy of him, I spent money on brand-name goods and self-polishing, which I had never bought before.
However, no matter how much Asuka loved J-kun, he turned out to be nothing more than a customer, and Asuka’s twisted days of happiness came to an end.
He confessed to me at the very end that he had never felt romantic feelings for Aska at all. Then I found out that his previous words were a lie. What was even more shocking was that when I accused him of lying, he said, ‘These are things that sex industry users should know. I don’t know if the rules he said about sex services are correct or not. But I felt so disappointed to think that I had sacrificed a huge amount of time, 6 million yen of money, and energy just because I did not know about them. So I decided that I had to tell people who didn’t know about the rules, and I started my blog.
Asuka’s blog, “The Dangerous ‘Sex Industry for Women'” (Ameba Blog), in which she describes her own experiences, has been a hit with women’s sex industry users, and has even been made into a comic book titled “I’m a simple office worker, but I fell in love with a top-notch therapist – 150,000 yen a night. Asuka’s blog received comments from many users who are addicted to and troubled by the female sex industry.
She said, “‘Isn’t this a common story in the male sex industry?’ But it is obvious that women’s sex is more addictive. However, I feel that there are more cases of addiction to women’s sex than men’s sex. This may have something to do with the difference in the instinctive mental behavior of men and women.