On to 1000 Men in Five Years Sexual Liberator Meshia Reveals the Best and Worst of the 936 Men She Has Met
Why did she leave the unit "Bichi-chan" when she was less than 70 men away from the feat? Why she chose to leave the unit "Bitch-chan" and climb the summit alone when she was less than 70 men away from her goal.
Graduated as a virgin in a one-night stand
Her first time was at 20. From there, in just five years, a beautiful sexual powerhouse who has crossed swords with 935 men has become a hot topic online. Her name is Meshia (25), and she champions the belief that “I want to create a society where women can talk about sex freely and take action.”
As the ace of the three-member unit “Bitch-chan.”, Meshia has taken on dynamic reverse-pickup projects such as: “Having sex every day for a month on the Yamanote Line,” “I want to get in a taxi and go straight to a hotel with the driver,” and “I was trapped in a room where I couldn’t leave unless I did XXX with an UberEATS delivery worker.” On their YouTube channel, they share “raw, unfiltered interactions with men” and “post-hookup reflections.”
Determined to become a savior for Japanese women, Meshia continues to fight on—fully prepared for backlash. What drives her? When I arrived at our meeting place to hear her story, Meshia greeted me with this bombshell:
“Yesterday, I had sex with the first person I was paired with at an aiseki lounge, so my total is now 936 men!”
(As of January 23. The number has continued to increase since then.)
The man was a 25-year-old office worker who looked like a slightly rougher version of Koji Seto. They started drinking as a group of four—two women and two men—then enjoyed karaoke and darts, but the friend of the Seto-lookalike got drunk and fell asleep.
“So then my girl friend went home by taxi. Once it was down to three people, the guys were like, ‘Choose which one you want.’ Like a ‘Neruton’ matchmaking show, holding out their right hands like, ‘Please!’—and this was on the street, okay? (laughs)
I was like, ‘I’m fine with a threesome,’ but apparently they didn’t want that in front of my friend… so I chose the Seto-lookalike who was still awake. But I didn’t want choosing him to ruin the friendship between the two guys, so I exchanged LINE with the one who was asleep and did some aftercare like, ‘Let’s do it next time!’ (laughs)”
What is it about this refreshing vibe?
It’s almost like listening to someone from a high school sports club. And sure enough—she says that in high school, she was a baseball team manager, cheering on the players as they aimed for Koshien together. After graduating, she went on to a traditional women’s university. Her “awakening to sex” was also, by her account, pretty normal.
“When I was in 4th grade, a girl I was close with had an older sister, and she was kind of precocious. She’d say a lot of dirty jokes, and at her house there were erotic manga for girls. We’d read them together and freak out, and then she was like, ‘I’ll lend it to you.’
So I’d lie on my bed at home reading it, and if I crossed my legs, I’d be like, ‘Huh this feels kind of good.’
It wasn’t using my hand—more like pressing with my legs, putting pressure on my lower abdomen. If I kept applying that pressure, it started to feel tingly… I did it with my legs, not my hands. Later when I talked about it with friends as an adult, there were actually a lot of leg-type girls, which I found interesting.”
Her first kiss was also with a female friend. In her third year of middle school she got a boyfriend, but they went to different high schools. Both were busy with club activities, and they broke up quickly—an entirely ordinary student life. The person she had her first time with was that first boyfriend.
“Even after we broke up, we still followed each other on Instagram. Then once I was old enough to drink, he DM’d me like, ‘Let’s meet.’
When I actually met up with him, he was still a virgin. It seemed like it had become a complex for him, and maybe I was the only person he felt he could ask to help him with that.
I liked him and wanted to date him, but he had absolutely no intention of that. The morning after my first time, when I woke up, he was already dressed and sitting alone on the sofa. He didn’t stay in bed with me, didn’t cuddle me, didn’t hold me tight.”
Even when she said, “I want to see you again,” his replies were cold. Losing her virginity ended up being a one-night stand—and as she stared at her phone screen, something switched on inside her.
“If it’s going to be like this, then I’ll go all the way.”
That was the moment Meshia was born.
Meshia says that after the second man, she doesn’t really remember them. But as she gained experience—mainly through aiseki lounges, dating apps, and being picked up at clubs—she met a developer who rapidly expanded her repertoire.
“In high school, I was a manager for the baseball team, and someone the starting shortstop introduced me to was incredible. He was the shortstop’s local friend, and he also played baseball in college. His position was pitcher. He had that EXILE vibe—like a darker-skinned version of Alan Shirahama. On our first date, he came to pick me up by car, and while we were stopped at a traffic light, he slipped his hand through the hole in my ripped jeans and reached toward my lower abdomen. It was so natural—like, ‘Wow, he’s used to this,’ and I was impressed. Before I knew it, we were at a hotel.”
After that, she began visiting the Shirahama-lookalike about once a week at the dorm the baseball team rented, where she learned all sorts of things from him.
“Even something as simple as how to lick—he’d gently teach me things like, ‘Watch the other person’s facial expressions and figure out what feels good,’ or ‘Everyone has different preferences for strength and intensity.’ I learned so much from him that I actually thought, ‘The people I had one-night stands with before meeting him must have been dissatisfied with my skills.’ Thanks to him, I started feeling strongly that I wanted to experience more people.”
Meshia’s memo: “Sex like this is a no-go!”
From there, her unstoppable run has been as described. With the peak of 1,000 now in sight, we asked Meshia for her current best and worst.
“Okay, I’ll start with the worst! I can clearly narrow it down to two people. One was a guy I picked up in Nippori during the Yamanote Line project. His breath just reeked and yet he kept trying to kiss me. On top of that, he couldn’t finish easily. The worst, right? But honestly, the absolute worst was someone I met before joining ‘Bitch-chan.’
That guy also had a really strong smell. I noticed it even before we went to the hotel. It was summer, so he was wearing short sleeves, right? He had really bad body odor. But since we’d already held hands, I couldn’t back out. I thought, ‘Maybe it’ll be okay if he showers,’ but it wasn’t. And his smell down there was awful too. If I had to compare it to something, it was like rotten crayfish. He’d also drunk too much and couldn’t get hard at all. It was terrible (laughs).”
As for the best, she held her head and said, “That’s hard because it updates every day.”
“I’m improving every day too, and I’m gaining more techniques, so the other person and I can respond to each other and build the pleasure together. That’s why my ‘best’ ends up being someone recent. Still, yeah. It was probably the guy at Gotanda Station during the Yamanote Line project. It was the final day—day 30—so my body was exhausted, but the guy I picked up at a crosswalk near the station was totally my type.
He looked like Kei Tanaka, was self-employed, super funny, someone I could respect, and he smelled amazing—like a nice cologne… He was perfect. I think he was about 33. We had drinks at an izakaya and then went to a hotel, and honestly, it wasn’t particularly thick or long. But our chemistry down there was incredible—so good that the moment it went in, I was honestly moved. I already thought ‘I really like this guy!’ while we were still drinking at the izakaya, so that probably had an effect too (laughs).”
Splash Mountain, a secret technique
She was also asked to name a seasoned warrior who impressed her—not because of looks, vibe, or physical compatibility, but simply because his technique was incredible.
“I think people who can reliably make a woman squirt are really amazing. A lot of men who go to hookup bars have that kind of skill, but the most experienced one was this guy who said, ‘I can do Splash Mountain.’ While thrusting hard in the missionary position, he would lift the woman’s hips up forcefully with his hands—and then make her squirt all at once. It’s like a secret technique that only someone with a strong build could pull off.”
In hotels, it’s one-on-one with the opponent. Depending on the project, there are times when she has to separate from the other members of “Bitch-chan.”, meaning she’s constantly close to danger. Meshia says the scariest experience she ever had was during the “hitchhiking” project.
“It was a project where we have sex as a thank-you for giving us a ride. At the starting point in Shinjuku, there was someone who said, ‘I can take you as far as the Ebina service area,’ so we at least made it to Ebina. But Osaka, our goal, was still really far away.
While we were stuck thinking, ‘What do we do now?’ a guy from Kansai said, ‘I’m going back to Osaka, so I’ll give you a ride.’
There were two of us girls, and two guys on their side. The four of us drove to Osaka, and we were like, ‘Since we’re here, let’s grab a drink.’ After that we went to a hotel, but the guy was smelly again. And his thing was super thin and short.
And because the smell was so unbearable, I tried to finish quickly in cowgirl, but he got mad and yelled, ‘Lick me more!’
I think he got angry because he was pretty drunk, but I got scared and ran away, saying, ‘My friends are nearby, I’m going home.’ He told us, ‘Let’s drink again,’ but the two of us girls ran off, escaped, and hid under a car. But he found us, and I thought, ‘This is bad!’
But the other guy was kind and said, ‘Sorry, you can go home,’ and let us go. That was dangerous.”
To protect herself, she says there are things she’s careful about.
“I make sure to say before we do anything that I love one-night stands and new people. Then it becomes like, ‘So it ends today.’ They don’t get attached. That’s probably why I’ve been able to avoid being stalked. I also almost never exchange contact information. Once sex is over, I leave right away. I rarely stay the night.
Also, it helps to tell them I’m self-employed. Of course, I don’t mention ‘Bitch-chan.’ But if I say I do video editing work on my own, they assume I’m independent and have money, so they don’t look down on me. They don’t try anything stupid.”
These are her personal rules—and her pride—as she walks a path with no clear road. She analyzes that since starting this challenge, my communication skills have gone way up.
“Since I’m meeting new people every time, of course my communication skills get polished. It’s like I can match any type of person. If you look at someone’s face, talk with them, and understand their timing and rhythm, you can tell what words will hit. And that carries over into the conversations after you get to the hotel too.”
Of course, there are things she has lost as well.
“My past, I guess. I can’t go to hometown drinking parties or class reunions anymore. Not even baseball team get-togethers. After I started this challenge, I got messages from acquaintances and classmates. At first I replied, but there were too many, and I couldn’t handle it anymore. In the end, I blocked old friends one after another.”
She also ended up parting ways with “Bitch-chan.” The reason was differences in direction. She decided that because the summit she’s aiming for is so steep, she can’t carry too many things on her back while climbing. She launched her new channel, “Meshia,” and aims for the top entirely on her own. Perhaps the reason she seemed faintly sorrowful was because you could see her grim determination beneath it all.
At the end of the interview, she was asked: “What will you do for the memorable 1,000th person?” Will she choose an ideal partner, or leave it to chance?
“Actually, it’s already decided. I’m thinking of making it into a video, but you know the show ‘The Bachelorette,’ right? I want to do a slutty version of that! ‘Bichlorette’! I’ll gather about 15 guys. If I do that, I guess I’ll need to start adjusting things once I pass around 990? Or maybe.”
Those who venture into uncharted territory are always alone. In order to bring sexual liberation to women, the savior cuts ties with her past and keeps pushing forward.
