<figure id="attachment_447719" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-447719" style="width: 3998px" class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="#" data-ident_hash="db62a4cd"><img src="https://res.cloudinary.com/fridaydigital/image/private/t_article_image/wpmedia/2025/11/553c6ad14397582039730e76292d7ee7.jpg" alt=""></a><figcaption id="caption-attachment-447719" class="wp-caption-text">Many Japanese are &#8220;outraged&#8221; by China&#8217;s harassing posts. &#8230;&#8230;</figcaption></figure>
<h2><span class="strongInContent"> I would slice off a dirty head without a moment&#8217;s hesitation.</span></h2>
<p> There may never be a more important time for anger management.</p>
<p> China is fiercely opposing Prime Minister Sanae Takaichi&#8217;s (64) &#8220;existential crisis situation&#8221; comment regarding the Taiwan contingency. Although Japan is merely repeating its previous assertion, President Xi Jinping (72) was apparently not pleased.</p>
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<p> Immediately after the statement was made, China stepped up political pressure in every possible way. The person who started it was Xue Jian, China&#8217;s consul general in Osaka. In his own X</p>
<p><span class="strongInContent"> I have no choice but to slice off his filthy head without a moment&#8217;s hesitation.</span></p>
<p> I will cut it off without a moment&#8217;s hesitation,&#8221; he wrote in his X.</p>
<p> In step with this, the Chinese government called on its citizens to refrain from traveling to Japan because of the worsening security situation. The tourism industry was hit hard, as data shows that Chinese tourists accounted for less than 20% of last year&#8217;s inbound consumption. Airline company stock prices fell sharply.</p>
<p> It did not end there.</p>
<p> Imports of Japanese marine products were again suspended entirely. The Chinese media were not unanimous as to the reason, with some expressing distrust of Koichi&#8217;s statement and others questioning the safety of the well-known treated water from the nuclear power plant.</p>
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<p> At the UN Security Council, China also called Japan&#8217;s bid for a permanent seat on the council &#8220;totally unqualified.</p>
<p><span class="strongInContent"> &#8220;We are not qualified at all.</span></p>
<p> and &#8220;Japan is not qualified at all&#8221; to be a permanent member of the UN Security Council. To top it all off, a diplomat with &#8220;both hands in his pockets&#8221; has appeared on the scene.</p>
<p> On November 18, Masaaki Kanai, Director-General of the Asia and Pacific Affairs Bureau of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, visited Beijing, China, to discuss a remedy with Liu Jingsong, Director-General of the Asian Affairs Bureau. The discussions ended in a deadlock, and as Kanai emerged from the building with a sullen expression on his face and listened to the interpreter, Liu was standing next to him with his hands in his pockets in an irreverent manner.</p>
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<h2><span class="strongInContent"> Mr. Liu, who is usually a serious and not rude person.</span></h2>
<p> At first glance, it appears as if Mr. Kanai is bowing to the pompous Mr. Liu. This scene quickly spread on Chinese SNS,</p>
<p><span class="strongInContent"> &#8220;Japan went out of its way to apologize.</span></p>
<p> The Chinese SNS quickly spread the story, and it was interpreted as &#8220;Japan went out of its way to apologize. In an interview with this website, a reporter from the political section of a national newspaper said, &#8220;Originally, the inside of the building was not open for filming,</p>
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<p><span class="strongInContent"> Originally, the inside of the building was not to be filmed, so it was unusual for the footage to be leaked to the outside world. They probably wanted to appeal to their own citizens that &#8216;China&#8217;s position is superior to Japan&#8217;s.&#8217; China&#8217;s real estate bubble has burst, and the economy has been on the rise. China&#8217;s real estate bubble has burst and its economy is in the doldrums. It is also likely that they are aiming to direct the frustration of young people who are unable to find work toward Japan.</span></p>
<p> He said, &#8220;I think they are trying to turn the frustration of young people who can&#8217;t find jobs toward Japan. Chief Cabinet Secretary Minoru Kihara (56) commented on the &#8220;unannounced shooting.</p>
<p><span class="strongInContent"> Chief Cabinet Secretary Minoru Kihara, 56, said, &#8220;Press arrangements (for filming opportunities) were made without proper coordination with the Japanese side.</span></p>
<p> He reportedly made a complaint to the Chinese side, but the matter has since been resolved. The series of images continues to be used for Chinese propaganda.</p>
<p> Many people must be annoyed whenever they see such &#8220;harassment&#8221; on TV or online news, and social networking sites are filled with invective against China, creating a foul mood. It would be fine if it were confined to the discourse space, but if it escalates into violent incidents, there is no taking back what has been said.</p>
<p><span class="strongInContent"> The other side is a professional at irritating the other side. The angrier you get, the more they want you to get angry. For example, if Chinese residents in Japan are attacked, they may use that as an excuse to impose further sanctions.</span></p>
<p> Anger management is an important tool to control anger.</p>
<p> It is often said that if you wait &#8220;7 seconds&#8221; when you are at the peak of your anger, the voltage of your anger will drop dramatically. Although this is a difficult task, it is important to view China&#8217;s behavior this time as a perfect learning opportunity for anger management.</p>
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<p><span class="strongInContent"> In fact, Mr. Liu, who has &#8220;both hands in his pockets,&#8221; is usually a serious person and would not be so rude. In other words, we can assume that instructions came from someone higher up in the hierarchy than Mr. Liu. Knowing this premise is all that is needed to alleviate some of the anger.</span></p>
<p> Anger&#8221; abounds on the Internet. Shunsuke Ando, founder of the Japan Anger Management Association and a leading expert on anger management, told this website about the effects of anger and how to deal with it,</p>
<p><span class="strongInContent"> Anger is entertainment. The angrier you make people, the more likely they are to read and watch it. So there are many articles on the Internet that make people angry. However, anger can become an addiction. At first, we are only angry at the information on the Internet, but gradually we become angry more and more, and we become angry at our family and friends. The first step in dealing with this is to realize that you are an &#8220;anger addict. Start with 5 or 10 minutes a day and gradually increase the amount of time you spend away from the Internet. Also, when writing comments, it is important to imagine what will happen if you post them,&#8221; he advises.</span></p>
<p> He advises.</p>
<p> There may be many times when you feel angry about the China relationship. However, if we let our anger get the best of us, we will not be able to make accurate criticism or have a calm discussion. The only way to deal with anger is through good anger management.</p>


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