Gravure Idol Faces Trouble After Date with Polygamous Man

Ryuuta Watanabe (37), known as the polygamous sugar daddy and active as a YouTuber and influencer, has a large family consisting of his first wife, Hina, second wife, Ayaka, third wife, Chiharu, Hina’s second child, Ema, Chiharu’s first child, Akun, and the newborn twins – making it an eight-person household (his fourth wife is currently estranged).

Despite this large family, Watanabe’s SNS states that he is currently auditioning for the fifth wife, which caught the attention of the writer and bottom-tier gravure idol, Sari Yoshizawa, a single mother. She thought, “This sounds interesting! Please go on a date with me!” and sent him a direct message. To her delight, he quickly agreed, and the date was set!

Although they had spoken many times via Zoom, it was their first in-person meeting. Yoshizawa, who hadn’t gone on a date since having a child, was extremely nervous. She went to the hair and makeup studio near the Kabukicho police box where they were to meet (perhaps over-preparing) and waited for Watanabe.

For the first time in my life, I was called a woman of quality

“Hello!”

Appeared in a celebrity-style outfit with a mask, hat, and glasses. My first impression was that he looked even more handsome in person than on YouTube, and surprisingly, he was slimmer too. Honestly, I thought he was much better looking in real life, no sugar-coating involved.

The first stop was an izakaya near the Godzilla building. Today’s date was a casual day-drinking tour of izakayas! The weather was perfect for it. We started with a beer and a lemon sour toast. I told him, “You look even better in person,” and he gave a shy smile and responded,

“Sari-san, you’re beautiful. You’re a woman of quality.”

What a nice, date-like conversation! It was the first time anyone had ever called me a woman of quality. When I think about it, I’m not sure what that really means but no matter how old I get, it’s always nice to be complimented, and it definitely lifts my spirits!

Next, we had to decide what to order, and this is where I was really impressed with him. He explained the situation, saying, “I want to go to a few more places after this, so something light is fine,” and then showed me the menu. This may sound simple, but a lot of men don’t do this. They either don’t show the menu and just order randomly or get upset if you leave food behind without asking how hungry you are.

I requested salted squid, and he chose edamame. After ordering, I thought, “Oops, salted squid might not be the best choice for a first meeting,” because it’s messy and you have to poke it with chopsticks multiple times. I was worried he might not like it. But then, without hesitation, he took a new set of chopsticks, put half of the salted squid onto his plate, and handed me the rest, saying, “This is for you, Sari-san.”

I’m not particularly OCD, but I really dislike sharing food with someone other than my female friends with the same chopsticks especially something sticky like salted squid or grilled fish. I could never say, “Please use serving chopsticks,” even if asked, but in my head, I’d be thinking, “Nooo!” So, I really appreciated how naturally he did this, and I thought, “What a great guy!”

A vibrating sound from the pockets

Mr. Watanabe is generally a good listener, and his speaking tone is gentle. He adjusts his eating and drinking pace to match mine, so despite it being our first meeting, I feel surprisingly comfortable.

Throughout the conversation, he compliments my appearance from time to time, which makes my feminine hormones surge.

What was supposed to be a casual drink turned into a full-fledged drinking session, and when I asked, “Aren’t you going to film for YouTube?” he responded, “Right! Let’s go to second place.” After going to the bathroom and touching up my makeup, he immediately complimented me, saying, “You look even more beautiful!”

However, my phone, which should have been on the table, was gone! When I panicked and said, “It’s gone! It’s gone!” he said, “Oh, I’ll call it for you! What’s your number?” I told him my number, and he came to sit next to me and said, “It’s really gone!” At that moment, I heard a vibration sound from his pocket.

He smiled innocently and said, “Did you find out? I was wondering how you’d react.” For some reason, I felt a little flutter in my chest. I thought to myself, “Next month, I won’t be in Hokkaido, where you live, will I?”

While we were heading to the second location, we started filming for YouTube. I’m not sure whether it was because he was too used to being around women or because my romantic intelligence is too low, but naturally, he tried to hold my hand, peeked at my face a few times, and was smooth!

At first, I ordered a draft beer, and he ordered a lemon sour, but what came was a “Red Bull Vodka.” That’s completely different! When I immediately asked the waiter to change it, he smiled and said, “It’s fine! It’s fine! I like it, so I’ll stick with this!” This made me realize once again what a kind person he is.

Many men are often difficult in situations like this, right? I might have acted that way if I had been drunk. But he kept ordering Red Bull Vodka and made sure I wasn’t feeling uncomfortable, which I thought was really sweet.

“I have another date after this”

There’s talk about kids here and there, but a polygamous man who makes his life a joke and a single mother actually get along pretty well.

I’m clumsy, and with the chaos of work and raising kids, even though I want to date, I feel like time is too precious to waste. But if romance and dating could become work, it’s like killing two birds with one stone.

He said, “If you marry me, I can shoot YouTube videos, and you can write articles. We’ll never run out of material. How about it?”

I laughed and said, “No way!” but deep down, I thought, “Well, that’s actually true” (laughs).

What’s more surprising is that he said, “I’m a polygamist in Hokkaido, but for you, in Tokyo, I’ll be monogamous!” making me feel good, but then about five minutes later, he said, “I have another date after this, and that girl is super cute, I’m trying to win her over,” and I didn’t feel bad about it at all!!

Normally, after being complimented by a guy you’re on a date with, hearing about another girl would make you think, “What the hell?” But with Watanabe, I didn’t feel that at all. Why is that? Maybe it’s because I knew he was already a polygamist, so it didn’t bother me at all.

I’ve been cheated on secretly or had my partner spend loads of money on other idols, and every time I’d feel like “this is the end of the world,” so why is this different? Maybe it’s because it’s all out in the open, so it’s easier to accept.

That might be his biggest charm. As I was starting to feel nice with the alcohol, the time for his date with another woman arrived, and we decided to part ways. In a way, the time limit was good; if there hadn’t been one, maybe I would’ve done something I’d regret!

To sum it up, the date after three years was fun! He’s polite, clean, and basically kind. And unexpectedly, he said the next date would be at my place, where he’d cook for me and show off his sugar daddy skills.

Honestly, I’m scared I might end up going to Hokkaido one day (second time).