Free Announcer Aika Kanda: “Alone with a Man for the First Time Since Marriage.”
Me, Pink, and Sometimes New York
I have been married for five and a half years. I have never been alone with a man, other than my manager, in a private room.
For example, let’s say I’m going golfing with my girl friend & her male friend. I feel comfortable with him because he is a friend of my friend, and when he drives me to the car he is driving for the first time, I do my best to get the conversation going because of my personality. Then he says, “We talk well together. Huh? I’m worried that he’ll think I might like him ……”.
I am very paranoid! You may think I am, but I have my own reasons. It is hard to believe now, but I have led a relatively popular life. This is due to the fact that I grew up sandwiched between my older and younger brothers, which allowed me to have a good time with men.
When I was in school, a boy invited me to climb the back gate of the university late at night and explore the campus building while avoiding the security guards. It sounded like fun, so I took him up on the offer. It was thrilling and the tension was at its maximum, but as soon as the guard left, he started to press me for a kiss. He said, “You wanted to be alone with me in a place like this, didn’t you?” I was surprised. I was surprised. I didn’t care who I was as long as I could enjoy this game. It became boring and sad all at once. I learned that men are creatures that make mistakes beyond imagination by pretending to enjoy themselves.
When the male employees at my part-time job were talking about luxury watches, I was the only woman in the circle of conversation. One of them said, “I’m buying a watch and I want you to come with me,” so I went along because it sounded like fun. On the way home, he told me that he liked me …… for going along with such a boring thing. I was surprised. I only accompanied him because it was a good opportunity to see the real thing. I learned that men are creatures that glorify women and interpret them in their own convenient way.
I have had many such experiences, and for me, the male mind is many times more unpredictable than the female mind. I never know what will be perceived and favored. To avoid any trouble, I decided to never be alone with a man after marriage.
However, just a few weeks ago, I broke that resolution. Once every two weeks, I meet alone with a man in a room in an apartment in Ebisu. I lie on the bed the whole time, and he raises and lowers my legs. Yes, I have started going to physical therapy.
It has been 10 months since the start of the daytime TV show “Poka Poka. She has become flabby from the waist down to her hips. The main reason was that he could not go on location in the local area and had fewer opportunities to walk. Now, I spend my days just driving between the TV station and my home. It’s no wonder I’ve gained weight. When I talked about this at a women’s magazine photo shoot, they introduced me to a chiropractor. He said he could solve my body shape problems.