ANSWERS&#8221; is a somewhat unusual love counseling center that specializes in sending accurate advice to those in relationships that are difficult to confide in family and friends, such as adultery, plundering love, and reconciliation.
 Ms. Mizusawa, a very popular counselor at such a relationship counseling center, has been receiving an increasing number of consultations from &#8220;sita wives&#8221; in recent years.
 Shita-wives&#8221; have become a social phenomenon. What are the reasons behind this? In this issue, we will introduce a consultation that she received. &lt;Afro
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 According to Ms. Mizusawa, who has provided accurate advice on many cases of adultery and predatory love, a certain trend can be seen in recent adulterous affairs.
 Originally, a great many of the consultations ANSWERS received were about infidelity,&#8221; she says. In other words, the overwhelming majority of consultations were from single women who had fallen in love with married men.
 Recently, I have been hearing from many single women who have fallen in love with a married man, and I have been wondering, &#8216;Is having a W affair a trend? &#8220;Recently, the number of consultations from wives who are having a double affair, or so-called &#8216;shitawives&#8217; (wives who have committed adultery), has increased so rapidly that one might wonder, &#8216;Is this a trend?
 Let us introduce one of the most recent consultations received by ANSWERS. Yuka Ito (pseudonym: 38 years old) and her husband, Yuka, have been married for 13 years and have a seemingly normal family with a 39-year-old husband and a 10-year-old child. Her husband is a serious man and a good father who takes the initiative in taking care of their child on weekends and holidays.
 Although her love for her husband has changed to love for her family, she was happy in her own way without any major problems in the family environment.
 However, there was a big change in Mr. Ito&#8230;!　She has been having an affair with a 31-year-old married man who is currently the coach of the soccer club where her children take lessons. They have been dating for three months.
 The reason for the affair was an injury to her child. Originally, there was a group LINE as a communication network between parents and coaches, where all information was shared, but three months ago, Ito&#8217;s child suffered a minor injury during a lesson, and they began talking about their communication and response to the injury on their individual LINE, which is how they came to know each other so quickly.
 His message, &#8220;I have always thought you are a beautiful mother,&#8221; triggered the W affair&#8230;!
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<h3>The Psychology of the &#8220;Shita Wife&#8221; as Analyzed by Consultant Mizusawa</h3>
 W. Adultery is never forgiven. Mizusawa analyzed Ms. Ito&#8217;s infatuation with her coach in this way: &#8220;Just looking at him is just so much fun!
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 Just looking at him makes me happy!　He makes me smile!&#8221; When she talks about him, her voice clearly rises one tone, indicating that she is quite emotional.
 The more immoral a person feels, the more intoxicated he or she becomes with the pleasure of it. It is easy to feel a sense of immorality and soar when a man and a woman are together under the surface in a place where everyone is gathered and no one knows about it.
 Especially for women, affection increases with each physical relationship after the start of a relationship, and I think that now, three months into the relationship, everything is just so much fun.
 The question that Ms. Ito asked was vague: &#8220;What should I do?&#8221; Her question was vague: &#8220;What should I do?
 In other words, he does not want to end this relationship, nor does he want to break up the family. To that end, he asked, &#8220;What should I do?&#8221; That was the question. Based on this premise, I organized her &#8220;what I want to ask and what I want to know.
 It&#8217;s been a long time since I&#8217;ve been in a relationship. Is it okay to say I love you or something normal?　Will it be a burden because we are having a double affair?&#8221;
 Do you think it&#8217;s selfish to say you want to see me when you want to see me?　What do you mean by &#8216;cute and selfish&#8217;?
 I sometimes share information about my children, such as their achievements in their lessons and how they are doing, on LINE, but is it okay to talk about private matters in that context?　Is it too much to use emojis and heart marks?
 I see him almost every day when I drop off and pick up my children.　Do you think he will feel a gap between us if I do that from time to time?
 My husband doesn&#8217;t know anything about it at this point, but is there anything I should be careful about?
 These were some of the questions. The questions also show that they are intoxicated with a sense of immorality.
 I will answer all of the consultant&#8217;s questions carefully, but this question made me feel that &#8220;Ms. Ito&#8217;s love life is very dangerous both for him and for her husband, and she may lose both&#8230;&#8221;.
 This is because most of the questions are all about &#8220;Ms. Ito and him. Based on her request, we have to eliminate as much as possible the possibility of her husband finding out about it, so we have to strike a balance between love and real life.
 So, after giving her a set of techniques to attract men&#8217;s feelings, I asked her if she was willing to divorce him if he found out and what kind of ending she wanted to achieve, and gave her some advice.
<a href="https://friday.kodansha.co.jp/article/293264" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"> (What was the shocking advice that Mizusawa, a very popular counselor at the love counseling center, sent to Mr. Ito, the sita wife&#8230;! Continue to Part 2)</a>
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 Active romance agent, infidelity diagnostician, infidelity consultant, and matching appraiser who works as a counselor at ANSWERS, a telephone consultation service. Her curriculum series, which drills the know-how and techniques of romance gained in the field of romance work, is also very popular.

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